Khushboo Patani Blasts Spiritual Leader Over Sexist Remarks
Khushboo Patani, sister of Bollywood actor Disha Patani and a former Indian Army major, has drawn widespread attention online for her fiery criticism of spiritual leader Aniruddhacharya, following his controversial comment on women in live-in relationships. A video of Khushboo speaking out against the religious figure’s statement has gone viral across social media platforms, sparking a heated debate around misogyny, morality, and public accountability.
In the now-deleted video, Khushboo Patani, who is also a fitness influencer and certified coach, is seen strongly condemning Aniruddhacharya for allegedly saying that women in live-in relationships “muh maar ke aati hain” – a crude and derogatory phrase that has triggered widespread outrage. The spiritual speaker, known among his followers as “Pookie Baba,” is often seen delivering light-hearted religious sermons from texts such as the Bhagavata Purana, but this particular comment has not been received lightly.
Khushboo’s response in the video was both sharp and unapologetic. “’Muh maar ke aati hain?’ Had he been in front of me, I would have shown him what that phrase really means,” she says in the clip. “These people are anti-nationals in the truest sense. Supporting such individuals is shameful. Why doesn’t he say men in live-in relationships do the same thing? Is a woman alone in the relationship?”
पूर्व मेजर और दिशा पटानी की बहन खुशबू पटानी ने जमकर पेLA पाखंडी अनिरुद्धचार्य को
इस पाखंडी का संपूर्ण समाज से बहिष्कार होना चाहिए यह महिला विरोधी नीचे पुरुष है मानसिक रोगी pic.twitter.com/QBb8Rw8yFP
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The former Army officer didn’t stop there. She questioned the social stigma around live-in relationships, defending them as a practical choice made by consenting adults. “What is wrong with living together before marriage?” she asked. “It’s a sensible decision, and it helps people avoid ruining not just their own lives but also their families’ in the long term.”
Although the original video no longer appears on Khushboo Patani’s Instagram or other official social media pages, it has continued to circulate widely online. It remains unclear whether she deleted it voluntarily or if it was automatically removed due to platform guidelines. Khushboo herself has not issued any clarification or follow-up statement, and her social media presence has been limited since May 16, particularly on X (formerly Twitter).
Online Reactions Divided
The backlash against Aniruddhacharya has grown steadily since the controversial statement went public. Critics have called out the double standards in society’s treatment of women and condemned the use of derogatory language under the guise of spirituality. At the same time, Khushboo Patani has been lauded by many for taking a bold stand, especially given her military background and growing influence as a fitness professional.
However, there have also been voices cautioning against the use of harsh language, even when responding to problematic statements. Some users argued that calling someone “anti-national” in such contexts might dilute the seriousness of the term. Others felt that Khushboo’s strong words were justified given the vulgarity and one-sidedness of the spiritual leader’s comment.
Aniruddhacharya, who has millions of followers on social media and is known for his engaging narrative style, has yet to publicly address the controversy. As of now, no formal apology or clarification has been issued by his team or the spiritual leader himself.
The Bigger Picture
This incident has opened up broader conversations about the role of spiritual figures in shaping public opinion and how easily harmful stereotypes can be reinforced under the garb of cultural or religious preaching. It also raises important questions about how young influencers and public personalities – particularly women – are using their platforms to challenge outdated norms and speak out against injustice.
Khushboo Patani’s outspoken response may have stirred controversy, but it has also sparked a much-needed dialogue around gender equality, personal choice, and the need for accountability in public discourse.
Meanwhile, her most recent post on Instagram, unrelated to the controversy, provided followers with a step-by-step guide on how to administer CPR in emergency situations – a reminder of her roots in public service and commitment to fitness and health.
As the debate continues to unfold, many are waiting to see if either side offers further comment. For now, the viral video remains a symbol of the clash between tradition and modernity – and a bold voice unwilling to stay silent.
